Persuading is a great ability. There are ways to persuade stubborn people. Of course, everyone can achieve this ability by working. It is very difficult to convince especially stubborn people. Because the stubborn person remains stuck in an idea and does not accept other ideas. He is fixed-minded. Even if you show how wrong his decision is, he still won’t give up this idea. But how can we persuade the stubborn person?
How Stubborn People can be Persuaded?
1- First Change Your Attitude. (Conquering the castle from the inside)
What you must do is actually very simple. Listen to his opinion and stay on his side. He’ll start to lower his guard. At that moment, slowly impose your own ideas.
2- Talk to Planned.
Plan and think like a chess event. Talk to all the planners to do the mat. This may seem difficult. But talking is not as difficult as you think. What you just say is to guess how he will respond. Makes you talk 4-5 steps ahead.
3-Stubborn people are afraid of change.
Make them feel like a good change. The stubborn people don’t like change. That’s one reason for their persistence. When stubborn people find the truth, they don’t look at alternatives. Be persistent, but don’t be belligerent. Make them feel that change is great with a beautiful language.
4- Give confidence.
Make them feel you’re not against to them. Inoculate trust feeling. So, you will see that there is no wall that cannot be inoculated.
5- Give peace of mind.
When it is filled with a peaceful conversation and sincerity, the other person will bring the sails under water whatever the person does. Choose the right time and the right place for him. Give peace of mind. Don’t strangle him and don’t worry.